The profoundly broken heart seeks answers. If the pain and confusion are profound enough, the questioning can emerge into the spiritual/mystical realm. We could find our thoughts running like such:
*what did I do to attract/deserve this?
*how could this happen?
*what does it mean?
*we’ve got to be connected on a deeper level, right? (I got it! It’s a past life thing!)
Or we might even go so far as to arrive at the conclusion that it could only be a “twin flame” experience. Surely no other relationship dynamic is capable of generating so much pain and questioning of one’s sanity, right? (If you’re hearing this term for the first time, go on, just Google that shit. OMG, right?)
The truth is that it doesn’t really matter what name we give our experience. What DOES matter, is that we attain consciousness around the WHY. That is how we gain empowerment. And thankfully, the Why isn’t as horrendous as we often imagine. It’s actually all about ENERGY and vibrational matches that appear in our lives to match the energetic and karmic patterns we are carrying within us. When we have consciousness around this, healing and creating new experiences (including love!) become natural.
Self-healing in this area is very powerful. Sometimes, though, we can find ourselves getting stuck. We all have blind spots. This is where I can help. If this post resonates deeply with you and you'd like help with unwinding the stories behind your heartbreak, contact me.
Sara Martin: Twin Flame Rehabber, Creatrix of Talismans